Nasty Bitch

I found this blog post in my drafts from about 9 years ago as I was just cleaning out some things. I don't know why I never published it. I still feel the same way I did then as I do now. I might not have the same anger this post kinda gives off but I do still believe in standing up for yourself ALWAYS! 
Especially in todays world; because as we know it's even harder NOW 9 years later to stand up for yourself and what you believe in than it was back then. 
Standing up for what you believe in has always been hard but now we fear backlash from friends, work and even family because some how we have moved into a time period where having your own feelings and beliefs isn't allowed anymore. If you don't believe and follow along with the masses you are looked at as weird or even a bad person. It's no wonder nobody stands up for themselves anymore. It seems to be much easier to just follow along. But let me tell you following along will only work for so long if you know something truly isn't right. Trust me it will break you down.
 Now is the time to stay strong to who you are and what you believe. I promise there are more of you out there than you may think. You are not alone. 
Below is the blog post I wrote from 9 years ago. I didn't change anything or add anything. Everything including the pictures/quotes are the same. I even kept the same blog title. I didn't want to change anything because I feel like thats who I was at that time and there is nothing wrong with that. 



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hello loves! so today's post is gonna get a little real & honest. I usually like to keep it light weight around here but because of recent events I wanted to write about this..... 

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 I have always been a strong headed person. I was brought up that way - not the let others walk all over me. To stand up for what I believe in. To fight for what I feel is right.  So you better believe it when I see something isn't right or I feel I'm being walked all over I say something. But you know what I have been realizing?  Standing up for yourself seems to make ME the nasty one. Some how I have become the hater. When on earth did standing up for yourself become wrong? It's no wonder so many people keep their mouths shut anymore....everyone is too afraid of the backlash.  

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 It is already SO hard to be a women in this world & yet we continue to fight and back stab each other just to get ahead....it saddens me, that us as women can't get it together.  We should be joining as one & take on this world together-  Not against each other.   But clearly that is hard for a lot of girls to do & would rather just stay in high school.  If I can get anything across to you from this post it would be to stand up for what you believe is right. Don't let others make you feel afraid or that your just some crazy bitch. And I don't just mean in the blog world. I mean in REAL life - take a stand Stand up for what you believe in. Don't let these 'passive aggresive' people tear you down. And if you lose a friend or whatever over it - then good. You don't want people like that in your life anyway. You need to be surrounded by people that accept you for the REAL version of you. We should never ever be afraid to speak our mind, especially when we know its right.  

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