i don't need to fight to prove I'm right

FIRST who can name the song & band I have used as a title today!?


It's Friday!!! TGIF!!! Who remembers the old school TGIF?! I'm talking Full House, Step by Step TGIF....oooo the 90s. Good times.


So did you know NEXT Wednesday is Round 6 of #TheMessyProject?!?!? As always I am super excited & cannot wait to see what everyone does with their item....& coming in January is the start of the MINI Project!!


So before I introduce you to some of Santa's Secret Helpers...oh yes you heard me....First I'm linking up with Ashley at The Adventures in Newlyweds for Friday Letters! 

dear 12/12/12 Sandy Relief Concert: um OMG you were AMAZING!!!! Seriously the best Rock & Roll bands played to raise money for sandy. Not only was it for a good cause but I got to listen to some true rock & roll all night minus Kayne. Of course my favorite was Paul. I am a Beatles girl forever! However, The Who was beyond fabulous & got me even more excited to see them in January!!! 

dear brandon: i love you so much. you are my everything. can you believe its going to be 6 years in January?!?

dear elf on the shelf: you my friend can be a lot of fun.....

dear blog: I have finally disabled anonymous comments...you're welcome. If you got something to say, then you can show your face. No more of this anonymous mean comment bullshit. 

dear niki: i have really enjoyed our chats this week...you have been beyond supportive & I appreciate it so much....great minds think alike right? :)

dear justice system: SEND LINDSEY LOHAN TO JAIL!! 

& that is all i have to say about that.

So how is everyone's Christmas shopping coming along? I am almost done!! I just have to get one more thing for my mom & then I am done....oh wait I still have to shop for the BF...oops ----> then I am really done. So today I have some of Santa's  SECRET helpers here to help you all finish up your holiday shopping with some fabulous gift cards & products!!! So without further ado meet

Hello, Messy Readers! This is Rima from Bolu By Rima! I'm from Sunny Southern California (blogging from the IE & OC) and currently working Full-Time as a Nurse in a uber busy County Hospital. During my spare time (if any!), I love to be in the kitchen, alas I'm a Part-Time Baker. I'm obsessed about anything teal, cute kawaii Japanese Bunnies,  the kitchen aisle @ Homegoods, Coldplay and my never-ending split ends. Bolu is a place where I express my thoughts & rants (I'm not good expressing them verbally without getting emotional!), show you my appreciation for food, talk about the 2 important men in my life: My Man, Rob (who I refer to as the Pillow or Kuma-San) and my Fur Baby, Chimichanga aka Chimmy (a high demand pomeranian with a killer fart); and reminisce and cherish the moments that happened during the week (which I recap on Mondays). Please stop by at Bolu and say Hi! I would love to get to know ya :)

 Hi friends! My name is Chelsea and I am the blogger (and blog designer) behind Yours Truly. For the most part I blog about everyday real-world girl fashion, none of that high fashion runway shiz that no one actually wears in real life, and sometimes I chatter on about my other passions such as taking photos on Instagram and painting my nails fancy and graphic design. I'd love for you to come say hi!

Hi! I am Erin of Simply Just Lovely, a craftaholic, lover of all things fashion and a new momma to a beautiful baby boy named Aidan.  I blog about personal style, the world of fashion, motherhood and so much more!  Come say hi and join me on my journey as I share with you a glimpse of my life and what inspires me.

Hey y'all! I'm Amy and I blog over at A Glimpse of the Gouglers! I started blogging when my hubby's job took us across the country from Houston, TX to Pittsburgh, PA. Since then we've returned home to H-Town, but I can't stop blogging about my little fam's adventures and the three F's...food, fitness and fashion! I have a passion for running and enjoy a good book and glass of vino. I love girly dresses, the color pink, my hubby and puppy, Christmastime, pretending I'm going to conquer all of my Pinterest pins and so much more! So grab a glass of wine, take a look around and let's be friends!

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